This is what being an adult is: doing everything before you are ready. There is no syllabus for life that helps your graduate to the next event. It is happening all around you, all the time.
That is live: ready or not, here it comes. Exactly as it wants to.
I hope we all learn to let go a bit more, to forgive each other and ourselves for the things we wish we'd done differently or not done at all, to cut each other a break now and then. Let's be well and be good, especially to one another